I did not reblog or respond to the Ira Gray situation at all, because I knew that this could happen to me because Twiggy and Jamie have tried to “out” me as an abuser unsuccessfully a couple of times before. Just as I knew they would do this to me if I spoke out against their abuse, I thought they would be more likely to try to piggyback on the Ira situation if I spoke against it. Staying silent was selfish and cowardly.
Well, it happened anyway, whether I was silent or not.
I was silenced about both my own abuse and the abuse of others.
So to the victims of Ira Gray, you have my full support and I am really really sorry for not speaking out earlier.